If you're trying to do something way outside the norm & very specific (like shoot 700+ gr arrows from a 38# recurve), I'd suggest trying to find the equipment needed to do it right. If that means buying new, expensive shafts, new heads, etc., then so be it. If that requires new equipment to set, repair & adjust the new shafts, so be it. Be prepared to invest in your idea to make it work well.
I haven't shot aluminums since the '90s. But with carbons and woodies, you can play with the recipe quite a bit. The basic idea is still the same: find an overly stiff shaft, keep them long, add lots of front weight until it's weak, bulk up your strike plate & play with your brace height if it's too weak. Voila! Heavy arrow shooting where you need it to.