A4C, Just a suggestion, so far what everyone is saying is true, Terry is right on, but you are on a site where you may get a whole lot of opinions, each one has their own way, to a point. I would suggest, to get someone that can be there in person. That can stand behind you , on the side of you , and coach you on the spot, this way they can tell you exactly,what you are doing wrong, and correct it right now. I'm not saying doing it on the Trad Gang is wrong, nor am I saying thier replys are wrong. Great group of people, and very helpful, but I think someone in person would be a great help. GOOD LUCK, John