Your wrist has less strength with this grip, so it takes a while to get used to it. To get the grip, put the "v" of your hand (formed by thumb and index finger) in the throat of the grip (deepest part); now, slightly roll your forearm inwards (towards the bow). This will put your thumb slightly lower than your index finger and roll you forearm away from the string when you shoot. Your hand should be right up against the arrow shelf of the bow (my feathers actually brush my hand when I shoot). The other thing I do, which I did shooting compounds competitively, is to lightly tuck my last three fingers into my hand; I don't clinch them (like a fist), just lightly close them; my thumb and index finger lightly touch to hold the bow. This grip will put all the bow pressure on the meat at the base of your thumb, and you won't torque the bow. It takes some getting used to, though. Good luck, Paul.