Clint, I have exactly the same problem. If I wasn't having so much fun getting to that point,I would have quit a long time ago. But that's not a good option.
After years of fighting and frustration, I swallowed my pride and put a single sight pin on my bow. I think it helps because it mandates coming to full draw before the aiming process begins. I reach full draw every time now. Yes, a good shot still has to be executed, but you WILL be at full draw. Did you ever short draw with your compound? Probably not. The pin would also put you back in a "comfort zone" that you were familiar with when hunting with your compound. That is, "draw, anchor, aim and THEN release".
It's certainly not a cure-all for missing, 'cause that can still occur for other reasons, but I honestly believe that the single pin will get you where you want to be...at full draw. After that, the rest is still up to you. I highly recommend it, because I know what you're going through. It's no fun.
Good luck, and keep us posted.
knobby