If you have only been shooting for 4 days, you aren't even close to seeing the target yet. It took me years for my "Instinctive Eye" to come into full focus, and even now I still fling some off the kill zone on my 3D buck, but that's an anchor problem and not a focus problem....long story.
Get your gear like Whump said, and pound the living crap out of that target. Shoot until it hurts, then put it away. Get it out the next day and pound it some more. Eventually your eyes will come into sync with each other and finally reach an agreement as to which one focuses on the target (Big Picture or the whole Deer) and which one focuses on the spot you want to hit (a hair or heart).
Here's a tip that really helped me tremendously. Don't start out trying to shoot spots, if your target has them on it....cover it up with something like a garbage bag so you can't see the spots. Now concentrate on focusing your shots on the center Mass of the Big Picture. When your groups tighten up, then take the bag off and pick a spot.
Pick an anchor point that feels natural and don't fight it. Keep your anchor point consistent no matter where it is as long as you use the same one every single time. I can tell when I miss my anchor point immediately, arrows fly messed up and twirl around in an elliptical fashion and I usually miss 6-8" right or left.
Look at the clock on this website that has the picture of the bow shooter on it using perfect form and copy that as close as you possibly can and you will eventually get it.
You will get frustrated, you will get mad, you will want to quit and sell your equipment off, but don't allow yourself to get discouraged. It will all come together when you least expect it, and it's almost like stepping out of a dark room and into the sunlight......all will suddenly be revealed. :cool:
One last thing, don't rush into grabbing a whole cart full of junk all at once, because your needs may change as you go along and you will end up here in the classified ads section selling half of it off for a fraction of what you paid for it. You will determine what you need the more you get into it, and ask questions around here.....
These Guys Know Their Stuff!! So pay close attention to what they are telling you.
Basically all you need right now is your bow, arrows with practice points, your shooting glove, and something to shoot at. Save the rest for later.
I'm no expert by any means, but I've made enough mistakes that I know what
"Does Not Work" from my own mistakes.
The hardest part is figuring out
"What Does Work" and these guys can help you take a few years off the learning curve because they have already been there....Tried that, Several Times!
Don't forget, we have all been there at some point.
Good Luck!
~SEMO~