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Author Topic: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)  (Read 1321 times)

Offline Schmidty3

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First off let me say that.... I just want him to be successful with his selfbow. I also want him to have a clean kill (because guess who's going to do the tracking)....but on to our story.

There's two things that my dad has done half decently....He made a bow and made a string. He seems to overlook every other aspect of traditional archery: tuning bow and arrow, sharpening broadheads, shooting form, etc.

I'll describe him as an old dog that cant learn new tricks, and extremely uncoachable.  His golf shot is on par with Charles Barkley's (terrible form), his softball swing is cringeworthy, his pistol stance is of his own design (in a bad way), and (in our case)worst of all his bow form is just atrocious. BUT his brain must be amazing, because if you watched him do any of those things you'd say he'd be terrible, but he does ok, he's found his own way and practiced at it until he's decent. He's the kind of guy that takes advice as criticism and gets frustrated. He's the kinda guy to put in minimal effort but (luckily) get the most reward. He's also a believer in "Kentucky windage". If his rifle is shooting 3" to the right, he'll aim 3" to the left instead of adjusting it. He picks something up, does it or shoots it, and that's just the way it is, and he compensates with his mind until he reaches mediocrity.

So on to archery...

Just shooting around in the backyard he usually tells me that "I have to get within 20 yds", "I think my max range is 17 yds"... stuff like that. And that's perfectly commendable. ( honestly, I think I want to get him within 10 yards the way he is shooting).

And despite his terrible form he manages to hold about a 4-5" group around 10-12 yards.

I'm no coach, but I see a few things immediately:

First off he leans into the target, like 80% of his weight on his front foot, spine at a pretty sharp angle etc.

Next he only draws back until the back of his thumb touches the corner of his lip. He's 6'3", he should be pulling 29-30" pretty easily, I bet he only pulls 25" maybe.

Third, his arrows never impact or fly the same, sticking in the target at different angles (which doesn't bode well to the prospect of shooting broadheads). And I'm fairly certain that he's plucking the crap out of it, especially since he's not drawing all the way back. Back tension is obviously non-existent, and he's most certainly not pulling through the shot. I've discussed the way I aim, align, and shoot...I'm trying the 3 under fixed crawl, and must say that it has helped quite a bit...and I think that shooting 3 under using the point as a reference would help out his shooting. He says he's shooting 3 under instinctively. Which is fine (but remember the 4-5" inconsistent group at 10 yards and the 17 yard "max" (cough   :knothead:   ) accuracy range).

As far as tuning, I've tried to set him up as best as I could (he seems to have no interest in learning or improving his setups   :knothead:   . When I shot the arrow out of the bow they hit the target, but most certainly "were not fine".

Soooo to the crux of the matter....

How does one go about coaching the uncoachable? How does one instill the knowledge that a properly tuned bow/arrow combo will shoot more accurately and penetrate better? (and its not "it is what it is", but can be improved). I almost feel like I need to pull a Leonardo dicaprio and somehow "inception him" into wanting to learn a better way   :banghead:   . I'm fairly certain that if you matched decent form with his natural ability to mentally compensate he could shoot that 4-5" group at 20 yards pretty quickly. The problem is that this seems like the kind of thing that he's going to have to find the motivation to do himself. I cant have that desire for him.  

Obviously telling him that his form sucks, his release sucks, and he's not even pulling it back WILL NOT help our situation lol.
Do I just calmly tell him that there's a few things we can change to improve his max range?

Maybe get him a book to read? He built his selfbow following some old well known book (the title escapes me at the moment, but it was from pope and young I believe). Is there a good form/tuning book from a well known name that I could get him? I think he respects the old famous names, bear, hill, pope, young, etc. I'm just his young know it all, engineer, perfectionist, never wrong son (basically whatever I say seems to be worthless to him).

Anyway...

If anyone has any tidbits on the best way to approach this sort of situation im all ears    :)

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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #1 on: September 12, 2016, 12:15:00 PM »
I think you have pretty much defined the word, "uncoachable".  If a person is unwilling to hear or accept suggestions, and doesn't ask for help or recognize the need for it, there is not much you can do.  If he is enjoying what he is currently doing, let him bumble on.

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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2016, 12:56:00 PM »
He may be interested in reading "Instinctive Shooting," by Fred Asbell.  I think there are more accurate ways to shoot the bow than the method Fred teaches.  But on the other hand, Fred's method is in the same general direction your dad seems to be heading on his own, and your dad would become more accurate than he is now if he learned it.   Also, Fred is a very engaging writer, and I honestly think that I would enjoy reading Fred's book even if I wasn't hooked on traditional archery.  I've also attended Fred's and Ken Beck's clinic at the Black Widow Company in Nixa, Missouri, which is a very low key and friendly environment.  This would be even a better choice than reading the book, but of course requires more commitment than just dropping a book on a coffee table where he might see it and pick it up.
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2016, 02:43:00 PM »
I like GFA's stuff.... so I ordered the book...and while I was there I ordered a new knife and a wind blocker vest!!!   :D

If anyone else has any literature ideas i'm open to them. He shoots 3 under if that makes any difference.

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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2016, 05:12:00 PM »
GFA is pretty strongly in favor of a split-finger hold, for reasons he explains in his book.  However, if your dad can just ignore that part, the rest of the book is devoted to learning consistent, repeatable form, the same goal as any other style of shooting, and addresses all of the problems you describe in your initial post.  Fred makes the argument that if you want to truly aim instinctively, getting the arrow completely out of your vision is the best way to do it, and that is hard to do shooting 3 under.  I shoot 3 under and like to see the arrow in my peripheral vision, but don't calculate a gap.  Fred would conclude that my aiming method is not instinctive, which is his prerogative; but for me it is more accurate than shooting purely instinctively without seeing the arrow at all.
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #5 on: September 12, 2016, 08:53:00 PM »
I find when trying to coach my kids with any sport, that I'm better off to bring in a third party. Someone that they respect, but that also would take friendly advice from. Maybe if you have someone else shoot with you and your dad, you could have them point out things to your dad that they "notice" to help improve his shooting.  
Not sure it would help with kids teaching parents, but might be worth a try.
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2016, 10:09:00 AM »
Let him be. Both you and HE will be happier.
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2016, 10:20:00 AM »
I think i'm gonna go with....this is a "book I read, you may enjoy it" route.

Or I may try to trick him into letting me coach him with the reward being that GFA knife.

We shall see.

Thanks for the replies!

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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #8 on: September 13, 2016, 01:25:00 PM »
As a song writer once said, "There is none so blind as he who will not see." He is not interested in your advice, and does not seem to be interested in improving, so if he is happy at his current level, just leave him be to enjoy himself. Now I know this is family, which is always tricky, but, if he is not willing to become proficient, it will be unethical for him to hunt. Tread lightly on this, though, as a nasty argument will not be worth it.
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #9 on: September 13, 2016, 04:17:00 PM »
I hear you...

I think my best window is to try to convince him (tactfully) that with a little work and a few changes we can increase his effective range...not to mention he's leaving about 4" of power stroke by short drawing. Just getting the bow pulled back should show him how much he is losing out on.

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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #10 on: September 14, 2016, 11:41:00 AM »
I think you are flogging, if not a dead horse, at least a stubborn mule. I can not teach my wife anything, but she is willing to listen to others.

Any chance of enlisting an objective 3rd party to shoot with him?
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Re: Soliciting advice for giving unsolicited advice (helping my dad's bad form)
« Reply #11 on: September 14, 2016, 02:28:00 PM »
I don't know....maybe. His neighbor is wanting to hunt with us this year. He's kind of the one who inspired us to build our first selfbow, which was my first trad bow. I learned on that for a bit then switched to a recurve. He's given me a few tips before.

I may have to just plan a trip to Denver, go watch the Rockies or skmething, and run over to RMSG. Those guys could probably square him up a bit!  :p

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