Marc, I'm not that far from you (northern worcester county) and we sure have sign, but lack of density seems to be the problem.
I thought I chose my spots real well, and invested a YEAR of scouting, and thought I was going to have a great season. Back to the drawing board.
A guy here at work killed two bucks this year on his way to and from work, running in front of his car, killed instantly.
He said the second one was "huge" and it did $3000 worth of damage to his Lexus.
It's sad to realize he had more deer activity in his car, than I did in my stand...
I liked the suggestion about a support group for us! It just fuels me to work even harder at it, for next year.
Good luck,
Rich