WOW! What a great thread.
First of all, Bill...Call 3Rivers and order part number "5340 Riser Inserts". These are the brass inserts with screws for the Kwikee bracket. We can fix you right up. If you don't dig it, I'll take it off your hands, 'cause you know how I like Kwikees (yes, pun intended).
Second, and most important, Cameron...I know exactly how you feel. Family is first, and much more important than some pieces of wood and glass. They make/made more bows, but He only makes a few moments in time you can truly relish with our children in the big scheme of things. Trading bows for those moments is a basic "no brainer" in my book, and I commend you and others for doing it. I know mine are "on the block" when the time comes if they need be. Enjoy every second, and by any means possible. No need to explain to us, but PLEASE share what you can with this "family".