just catchin up, sorry, treat her like the gift she is, i am 38 yrs OLD been married 16 yrs (same God given woman),been freinds 18 yrs, made some horrible mistakes,but thru Gods divine intervention and her love and forgiveness,we are strong and getting stronger with every prayer.don't let the world dictate to you your emotions,let her see you cry,ask her to hold you,tell her life would not be the same without her! congrats,good faith,pray together!!!!!!!