Aaron,I'll just give you my 2 cents.If the lord saw it,and you fitting to allow the addition of your daughter into your life as a more permanant fixture,I am sure with your permitting him to remain the captain of your ship,he will UNDOUBTABLY give/direct you and yours on a path toward His will.Not saying there are not going to be storms on the sea,but without the clouds and rain, tell me, do we REALLY appreciate the..SON!! May God bless you and your submission to the Master!!! (read proverbs 3:5-6) God bless,Brad