Mudd:
I know to well the shock and pain felt by a divorce. My wife left me afte5 34 years. I thought it was just some passing idea she had but it came to pass.
My prayers are with you Brother! The church I attend has a group for men in our situation called Seperated Men. It isn't about fixing our wives, but about making us more Godly Men. There is also "Divorce Care", which can be found in most areas.
I will continue to pray for you and want you to know that there is hope for healing and peace.
God Bless
Fred