Jeremy,
I felt like crying when I read about your loss, even though I don't know you or your son. I just talked to my 27 year old son and my 25 year old daughter today and I can't even imagine the pain I would have felt the last 14 to 16 years if one of them had died when they were 11. I can't even begin to imagine the pain of losing one of them now or ever while I am alive. That has to be the most horrible thing that could happen to a parent. God bless you and be with you and your family. I know that your son is now with God and Jesus and will have eternal life and happiness, but that won't make it much easier for you when you don't get to spend the rest of your life with him around.
Allan