Wow...what an amazingly terrible story. I, like everyone, else can't imagine what you are going through with your loss.
I have 2 boys - 8 and 9 who went on their first hunt with me this year for pheasant and they are now hooked! I have 2 bona-fide hunters who won't let me go without them now and I love it!
God Bless you and your family at this time.
If I can do anything from Colorado to help, please let me know.