Thanks, Guys! I admit, I'm wore out! :(
The nursing home charges $300/day and any given day on a weekend, with the exception of one nurse-aid combo, my Dad gets minimal care!
I was dealing with upper mgmt almost 3x/week and got some action..eased up and it all went to the crapper! :(
Dad doesn't complain much... and because he's so forgetful, you can't count on much of his "report" and they know it, so if I don't see it personally, I've got zip.
Knowing when to "let it go" and when to "ramp it up" has been exhausting!
There is no "family" just him and I left.
He's so weak and sleeps so much, I'm not sure he'll make it TO the 15th.. but if he makes it TO surgery, will he make it through the anesthesia?
So many questions. He's still cognizent of his world around him so he's questioning and thinking a lot, but is very private that way.
I try to engage him, but as you can tell, there are frustrations on every side... you call places to ask "why not this or that?" and they say they'll call back and you hear nothing!
God doesn't give more than we can take, but it surely ofen amounts to WAY MORE than we want, eh?
Lord in your Mercy...