I heard a preacher once say, Mike, the Lord doesn't care where you live or what car you drive, but more about HOW you live and how you serve others.
What I read is a concern that this new place, while improving aspects of "quality of life" may chain you to ongoing care and upkeep and deny you free time to do for others and pursue your own lives.
No apology there. Discernment is needed for sure!
May His will become clear and the path straight before you!
Keep the Son in your eyes!