Ray,
I keep busy year round. I do not come in to the house until it is too dark to see and I have pretty much sworn off watching any television. I do all of my computer surfing and topozone scouting on line at work. I have to shut down the machine shop at 10:00pm so my neighbors don't complain about the noise from the hammering and grinding. I don't play golf, go fishing, socialize with normal non-hunting people, or allow anyone or anything that is not a priority, intrusion into my schedule. I make two written lists every night before I go to bed. One list is what I plan to achieve the next day and the other list of projects planned over the next weeks to months. I work horses and llamas beginning in May as soon as the morel mushroom crop is in. From May through November it is preparations for hunting(working llamas or horses, shooting longbows, getting and keeping equipment ready) or actual hunting trips. From November after the whitetail rut through mid-May it is maintenence and shop time when I fabricate and repair pack equipment, farm equipment, fences, new barn roofs etc. In the winter I refletch or make up 5-6 dozen carbon arrows which will just about last me through deer season and work on making knives, leather crafts etc. I have to make time to mow the yard and I put in a big garden but with proper equipment that doesn't take long. I have an indoor shooting range in my basement where I shoot my bow a little, just about every day all winter long. Several years ago I stopped bending wrenches and doing most of my mechanic work and oil changes because I can pay someone to do that so I can do something else. My wife is in charge of rotating vehicles through the shop for service. When I have to go to a meeting or take the family on vacation we fly because it saves time and at the price of gas today flying is not much more expensive. I think flying is cheap when I consider the value of my time spent staring through a windshield. I have only been to see any of my inlaws twice (Christmas visits) over the past ten years. They don't interest me that much and if they really want to see me they know where I live. You have to prioritize.
My family has matured somewhat. I have two girls in high school that have discovered boys and don't have as much time or need for Dad as they used too, a son that is a Senior in College who is going elk hunting with me in three weeks and a Daughter in her third year of medical school that has precious little free time for the next few years. For years I worked over 100 hours a week, so my wife and family are accustomed to my schedule of not hanging around the house much. These days I work about 50 hours a week including drive time, sleep about 50 hours a week, so that leaves 68 hours a week to be productive. I take 10 weeks of vacation a year which gives me time for family vacation, 4-5 weeks of hunting trips and some additional farm time. I have been at this, at this pace for 12 years so it doesn't just happen overnight. Before I had the farm I used to make selfbows and I have a pile of bamboo slats, osage, hickory, and mulberry staves waiting for me, but I do not have the time to get back to it. Last year I was general contractor for the new home I built and that nearly killed me being on site two to three times a day for 9 months but I was still able to keep up with the farm and two trips to Canada, hunts for bear, mule deer, antelope, elk, and whitetail deer. I just sleep less when I have to.
You can do it. If you commit your mind, time and resources there isn't much you can't accomplish in this country.