Tom, IMHO, you should take fujimo up on his offer to let his friend help you in selecting a stave or tree for that matter. No better way to build confidence than to just do it. I started by reading books and such, but I didn't make any real improvement until I actually worked hand in hand with someone who has made a bow or two. I am by far no expert and my bows don't even compare to a lot of them on here, but I am convinced I would be a lot worse if it wasn't for the contact I have spent with fellow bowyers. So when you are ready to make one get with that guy and be a sponge. Better yet, get with that top bowyer he knows, I know I would if I had the chance. I have been doing this since '96 and plan to still go to Ed Scott's class next year if I can muster up the dollars. So I guess what I am saying is take any help you can get, never know when you will want to use it. Again this is my .02 and take it as that. Don't want a debate from anyone, just wanted to post my opinion.