Good questions. Overall, the glue up process is made in several steps to enhance sucuess (i.e. depending on your design you could probably glue up e/t on a bow, riser tips and all...but with all those moving pieces it would be extremely dificult).
Depending on the glue you use, and the tempature at which it cures will determine its delam temp (or failure temp)....That beign said, i do not have the magic formula, nor am I certain there is one (i.e. I do not know at what temp a bow will delam if you use Smooth On and bake it at 150 degrees for 6 hours).
However, like you were thinking, if you subject the first part of your glue up to the highest heat, and then subsequently apply lower levels of heat as you go, you should be successful.
That is what I do personally. I use Smooth On (EA40). I generally glue up my riser and put it in the oven at 160. Then shape the riser to get it ready for glue up, glue on the lams and bake it at 150 or so...then when I add tip overlays bake it even lower (125 or so). You can use superglue, 5 min epoxy or some other glue for the overlays, but you can achieve the best results (seamless sanding) with EA40 in my opinion.