Ah! You say you ground the node side? If that was a lot it could mean that the power fibres that are located near the outer surface of the boo were ground off leaving mostly pith. Then the boo will have very little resilience at all.To get the most from the outer back and belly lams one should grind only the inner pith part and leave the outer rind and nodes intact until finishing stages. To make a core it is hard to retain those fibres without cutting long narrow strips and making a composite core like in the Yumi bow. Check them out. It is possible to flatten the nodes by careful use of steam and pressure between two flat strips of board, at least I have been told this, the high parts can be scraped down a bit too. Personally, I would either make a composite out of narrow strips, retaining as much power fibre as possible or else use a maple or action bamboo lam for the core. The boo is great as an outer both back and belly.
chrisg