Mater, it seams reasonable that your top limb is too stiff by your description is what you are saying, right?
md126, in theory if your curves match they should be in time. This is apparently true so long as the tiller tree is applying pressure the same as the shooter would at full draw. Depending on grip style and how high the shelf is. Though, I find that most of mine shoot best when it appears that the bottom limb is working a little harder than the top. I think it is an illusion but it seems to be bending more, especially when I have to cut the shelf higher like 1.5" or more like on a low wrist handle. On a higher wrist handle my shelf is lower than 1.5" and the bend is more symmetrical in both limbs on the tiller tree when shooting best. Most of the time it's a roll of the dice. Lately I tend to start out initially 3/16" - 1/4" positive tiller for the first shots after roughing everything in and take a sanding block with me to the target and if the bottom limb needs to be weakened I will sand between shots until it shoots best hoping it doesn't cost more than a pound draw weight until it is dead in the hand as I can get it. It doesn't take much sanding effort with the block to get the bottom limb to pull in enough by hitting the sides and slightly rounding the corners of the glass. It could take as long as an hour before I am happy with it. Then back to the bench to final sand and finish.