"Something must make a bowyer comfortable with recommending FF."
I can only speak for myself, but the answer would be experience in my case. I tried it early on and never looked back. I've used it on selfbows of woods as soft as yew, elm, hackberry. I make flemish strings, at least 14 strands of FF (diameter varies with the brand of material) in the loops. I rarely if ever shoot arrows weighing less than 8 grains per pound of draw weight. Never had a single problem of any kind with FF.
On the 3 glass bows I've made, and 1/2 dozen I've re-tillered and re-fit the overlays and string grooves, never had a problem. I build up glass lam bows with an extra layer of glass usually, and whatever thickness of wood required for aesthetics. I think stack height makes some difference, for example a bow with a great deal of thickness taper would necessarily have a relatively thin outer limb at the string grooves. I'd guess I build up to at least 5/16" thickness or more.
I think the shape and size of the string groove matters a great deal. A teardrop shape sufficiently generous in size and angled such that the forces are directed as much perpendicular to the back / belly (green arrow) of the bow as possible helps mitigate the tendancy for the string grooves to split out along the lenght of the limb on the belly (red arrow). This is the only pic I have, and overly generous in size than my typical.
You just need plenty of surface area to take the load, and a shape that exploits the strenght of wood (fiberglass) in compression, versus shear.