Well, here is what minwax stain looks like. Not that happy with it. I took a lot of time sanding and preping, but still did not come out even..
It's not bad.. but I like Pat's idea of a dry rub... you can go to an art store and get colored charcoal.. will try that next time!
This was a water based stain from Home Depot.
I use Toungue Oil.. I have also used rub on poly.. like the Toungue better. Rubs in real deep into the wood.. takes a little bit of time, but worth it.