I've heard lots of good things about the little rigid sander for shaping tasks, but to make a whole bow on it I would imagine would be a nightmare (depending on the persons setup of course). I would actually really love to have one for shaping the riser, the 2" idler on the grizzly is just a little big (or a little small) sometimes.
I use the 6x80 grizzly with the wrap around table. It is great, though I must say that the table itself is a piece of crap. It is not thick enough for it's shape to be stable. I'm planning on making my own once I have the money to do so. Thinking the same 3/4" mdf with a 3/16" aluminum top would be nice. Also beware when installing that if the L brackets they give you to mount the table are not perfectly square, your table till also never be perfectly square. I never have square edges the way it is right now, and it drives me insane.
So all that being said, if I bought again, I'd probably get the normal 6x80 edge sander and the rigid sander to make up for the larger idler drum. Lots more precision with those metal tables. Either that or buy it and plan on making a better table for it haha.
Lots of people get by just fine with a normal belt sander, or I've even seen 4x48 sanders flipped up on their edge to function like an edge sander. Personally, it is the most used tool in my shop, and I do almost all shaping on it, so I would consider it definitely a worthy investment. Beware though, it's huge, and you need a lot of space around it to maneuver the bow properly, and it runs on 220v, which is easy to install but intimidating if you've never done that kind of work before.