I hate that my bud is having such a hard time with this, as I truly know just how badly he wants this to work out for me. I just want everyone to know that I've told Ruddy that there is absolutely no pressure from me on type, time, or even successful completion. We talked a long while yesterday and I told him I have virtually zero experience in bending and/or none at all in making recurves. I told him to talk to whoever can put him in his comfort zone and/or try whatever works for him. I do know this much, I have a good friend who is truly trying his darnedest to make a high quality primitive bow for me, just because he wants to do it - and that is nothing to be sneezed at, as we all know and, I'm sure, can agree on.
We are all behind you, Ruddy but, for heaven's sake, have fun with this bow, and don't beat yourself to death over it no matter what the choices, or outcome, turns out to be. That having been said, we do all love watching the process, and endeavor, with great interest, and we all can appreciate your dedication to a chosen project.
Go to it with a happy heart and a light conscience, my friend, and "talk to the wood gently" as you go.