You really need to give hickory a little extra consideration when trying to bend it. Stuff is tuff which makes it more rigid and harder to bend.
I agree, 3 hrs is way to long for boiling. Try just steaming, 45 mins max for 5/8" IMO. You only have a short time to get 'er bent, say a minute or so.
Also, the stump end (as it grew in the tree) will most often be the most difficult end to bend.....Art