PD, I thought that the back was overpowering the belly also, so I removed some of the thickness from the back and trapped it, but it actually took on another 1" of reflex.
No-sage, This was my first attempt at a composite bow and I noticed after glue up that most of my reflex was in the locations you mentioned, and as NTD noted, the belly wood was probably too thick at glue up, but thought I could work with it at that point, never thought it would move that much when the belly was reduced. I'll put some string grooves in it tomorrow and get it moving a little and see what happens. Every bow I've made so far has been a learning experience, why should this one be any different.