George, Roy, John, thanks for the input, ya'll are awesome. I was hoping i hadn't just turned this thing into a kid bow, looks like it'll still be fine. I'll follow your tillering advice and work on it some more tonite. It's 67 inches ntn, and i have a 68 inch b-50 i'll twist up and try instead of the stringer once i start bending her again. (that's a 64 inch string in the above brace pic). I'm DEFINITELY ditching the leather cup stringer for the long string! I just learnt to "do the twist" and plan on making some strings for tillering in the future.
the string hook was actually scooting left on it's own, i assumed from the stiffer left limb from some of the posts i've read here. the funny thing is, i hadn't removed any wood from the right limb, it was bending nicely (so i thought), kept removing from left limb (must've done a 150 or so scrapes over all), and it's still too stiff. I'm guessing i somehow heated that one more than the other, who knows.
The good news is when i unstrung her she went back to reflexed profile at the top after about a half hour, and i pulled back down with that cursed long string just to see (all last nite before i had any replies) and got the same bend as in the pre-brace pic. Go hickory.
thanks again guys for all your help, i'll be posting updates as i progress to (hopefully!) a beautifully bent stick!