My "system" is to measure at the butt when grinding, like Kenny, but I (mostly) use only one thickness of glass, .040. I keep a record of every bow built with careful notation of "Wood Stack", separate from glass and/or power lam. Obviously, in those few instances where I got a wild hair and used thicker or thinner glass, I note that as well, but for the most part, when I start a bow, I go through "The Book" (no, not that Book) and check all the previous bows close to the weight I want. Then I check what woods I used, the wood can make a heck of a difference in finished weight.
Good luck!