My favorite arrow is the one that hits where I'm aiming. There are too many variables to be able to tell you what will work best for you. My glass bows use arrows that are spined 10-20# over draw weight. My self bows use arrows spined 5# under draw weight. As far as material is concerned, I find top quality carbons to be the most durable, with Easton Epic and GT hunter xt being my favorite. When cedar shafts were $10 a dozen I shot a bunch of them, now I prefer something stronger, like ash.
The thing to remember is an arrow that flies perfectly straight with a sharp broadhead will kill any deer it hits, with a good hit of course. A poor flying arrow with a dull or poorly designed broadhead will make for difficult tracking.