with my tri-lams, I find the ideal taper depends on a number of things, limb profile, limb length, and limb butt thickness.
so for basically pyrimidal taper limbs, for thicknesses up to like .400" I find that about .005"/" total taper is sufficient. I've also used like .0075"/" taper on thicker, longer limbs like .500 butt thickness. My swap bow (check bow swap thread) which was about .500" thickness and a 68", had three lams, each tapered roughly .0025"/", for a total .0075"/"
Regarding the thickness of each lam, I usually try and make all the lams roughly the same thickness. 1/3 of total limb thickness per lam .... but I'm making mainly hickory backed tri-lams, prolly a little different with bamboo ..