great looking bow, not just for your first bow, its a great looking bow...DEFT is the way to go, its convenient in a can, dries quickly, and dries over anything, even ipe and cocobolo...i have used a golden oak stain on red oak board bows, it doesn't look unnatural, but brings out the grain, and the different woods will take the stain differently, so it makes for a nice contrast, try it on a test piece