What works for me is VERY strong light (like 100W desk lamp) and looking at all surfaces from a shallow angle. I don`t bother looking until I`m at 240 grit or something (most marks are obvious before that). If I`m really looking for a smooth finish, the last step is with 0000 steel wool, and then a thin spray of varnish, to be rubbed off when the last marks are revealed. This may have to be done several times, to get perfect...or you may just be happy with a few, light, marks. That`s what I do with my bows...but then, I`m building for myself, not for someone else. If I were, I suspect I would not be happy with any kind of marks, anywhere.
Just my two cents, but I come from a metalworking background, so there may be better ways...and I still have a LOT to learn!
DF