After re sanding the bow once again and adding two coats of sanding sealer to it I was able to get a beautiful finish with wipe on poly. I don't know if my spar was bad or something which would not let it set up, but after three days I finally just put the final coat of clear on her.
Hopefully it is a beautiful day tomorrow and I can get some finished pictures up of her.
She has her marking now!!!
This is prior to clear coats