The only other advice I would give you at this point is...
You said, "I've only sanded down boo 3 times now. It seemed like I could never get it truly flat from side to side. I've been using a pc of 1/2" thick steel for a sanding block too."
It's very hard to flatten wood or bamboo with a sanding block... or ANY flat hand tool. No matter how hard you try, you invariably roll the tool one way or the other just a tiny bit, and bam, she's no longer flat... which will show in your glue lines along the edge. I used to work hard at making them flat too, tried all different kinds of hand tools, and was never completely happy until I purchased a toothing plane. I LOVE it... one of my most favorite tools. If you're going to make more than a couple backed bows, you may want to look into investing in one. The blade is best when ground and sharpened in a slightly convex shape. It works better to flatten than flat tools do. You can direct your work to specific areas across the width of the piece. And more importantly, when I'm done flattening/thinning it, I run the toothing plane several passes, perfectly parallel with the bamboo, with the apex of the convex blade as exactly down the center as possible, until it won't remove any more material. Then when you clamp the very thin piece of bamboo down, it flattens out, showing perfect glue lines on the edge of the bow every time. In fact it works so well, that sometimes when the bow's done, you can't FIND the glue joint.
Toothing planes aren't cheap, they're a little over a hundred bucks, but worth every penny.
If you're a capable woodworker, Dean Torges shows you how to make your own in his video Hunting The Bamboo Backed Bow. That way, all you have to do is buy the blade.
By the way, I use the toothing plane blade, removed from the plane, to prep glue joints on the handle pieces, all overlays, etc. I also used it, in the plane, to prep the osage's gluing surface until I bought a thickness sander.
I don't know what kind of glue you're using, but if you ever get a toothing plane, you'll need to use a glue with gap filling properties... i.e. epoxy.
I'm looking forward to following along with the rest of this build. Good luck with it!