Canopyboy, I cant help but post this since you mentioned your daughter and the ADD/ADHD. I grew up with it as well, and while modern society wants us to believe it is a detriment, it can actually be an attribute.
It is widely accepted to be tied to a genome called DRD4, this is one of the genomes that is believed to be why our ancestors migrated, they couldn't sit still either! Whats over that hill, and the next,- squirrel!
You noticed it yourself that she can see things in a way others don't. Just focus on both your positives, it can be as much a gift as anything.