Bummer!
The first one is usually the worst, there is stuff you learn every time, and still forget from time to time...
A 1.25" limb will work fine on most longbows, on a recurve it will be tuffer to keep limbs straight..
There are lots of little tricks that help during glueup.
Here are a couple if I may...
1- clamp the riser, then tape it before laying rest of stack on.
2- Have something to hold lams and glass in place side to side. Fender washers, cool wellmade sliding holders, or a pc of plywood screwed to form side. The most important on a one pc is where the fades of riser are about 1/4" thick on both ends of riser. And about mid limb, the ends will be fine, you're gonna take the edges off to the nock anyway.
3- Ummm, the form breaking, I'm not sure, maybe a different form material would be in order, I like plywood but hear LVL is great too. MDF I have seen several pics where it broke in the bolt hole, usually while cooking.
4 - Add air 5 or 10 # at a time to give the glue time to squeeze and not move lams and glass.
What type bow do you have going? Narrowing will reduce weight, but you can still make a shooter most likely.
Sorry to hear all the trouble you had, but don't give up, taking game with YOUR bow is about as good as it gets!