I like gloss. I like to put a bit of wax on during hunting season to kill the shine and polish it off at the end of the season.
As for weight, I can live with anything that shoots smooth. The idea was for a bow for my wife or guests, but I'm happy to shoot it if it's a little heavier.
Well, I was pretty happy with my recipient's bow today before I went and messed it up (deserves its own thread.) Plan B bow might be a bit on the heavy side too. Plan C is to start from scratch. Uhg, that deadline suddenly seems really close!!!