Did you floor tiller the bow "before" putting it on the tree? Floor tillering is holding the top of one limb in one hand, then pushing on the handle of the bow with the other hand to bend the limb that is resting on the floor. You want to remove wood and floor tiller it until the limbs begin to take on a nice even bend/arc so to speak, BEFORE you go to the tree.. Having the string tight against the belly is good, too long a tillering string is not good. Your tree looks like you have it setup to replicate where you will be pulling the bow string when shooting. That is GOOD. I see the black vertical line on the tree, that is good. Don't worry about which limb tip is bending more or less. Because they will not bend the same, they can't because you are pulling more towards the top limb than the bottom limb. Just be concerned that the trees pull rope is traveling straight down that black line on the tree. When it does that, that means both limbs are bending equally, REGUARDLESS of how far either tip travels downward.
Did you facet the edges of the limbs, back and belly? Then did you round off the edges and then sand them smooth? Also anytime you remove wood, always sand them smooth and make sure there are no crisp edges or scratches anywhere. If you can't string this bow, then YES it is way too heavy and needs wood removed equally from both limbs. Then floor tillered again. Also make sure the center area of the belly of the limbs have a nice even taper to them. You don't want any bumps or depressions anywhere. And anytime you remove wood, sand that area smooth and be sure to check that the bellies have an even smooth transition from riser to tips. Always exercise the bow 30 times after each removal of wood. When I check the weight, I don't pull the scale with the trees pull rope, I pull the scale with my hands, and only pull it to as far as I have pulled the tree rope down. If the tree rope drifts off that black line, it ALWAYS drifts towards the limb which is too stiff. ALWAYS... Therefore you will need to remove wood from that stiff limb to achieve equal limb timing, hence the tree rope traveling right down the black line..
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