I weigh mine and usually glue up 3-5 bows at a time. some use a little more and some less depending on model and length, but I would say the average is a combined 9 oz. so that is what I mix for every bow...a little extra goes on the next bow.
I put each part in it's own separate cup and then down in the hot box while I'm gluing. My shop stays at a controlled 72 degrees and the glue is a little firm at that temp so heating it makes it much easier to ensure proper mix.
I have used wood scraps and bondo scrapers in the past but have settled on a wide painting knife (1-1/2" wide)and have been using the same knife for many years...until my brother threw it away :( oh well, I always keep a back up or two on hand. You can pick them up from a hobby shop for about $7-10. Probably have done over a thousand with one knife.
If you sand laminates with 60g (probably 80g too but I don't know), and you spread enough glue on both sides of every piece, all the pressure your hose can handle won't starve a joint.
Glue starving surely happens, but every time a bow fails, it gets the "glue starve" blame. It ain't happening that often and especially not with a bowyer with any experience.
If you take a pocket knife and start at the tip of a bow, you can peel one pretty quickly and easily and it will usually happen on a glue line.
These lines look somewhat dry to the untrained eye. What do you expect to see? big layers of glue? There will only be what will fill the depth of the sanding ridges of either side. Our glue dries clear.
Be safe, use coarser grit paper. I use 60g exclusively(unless staining veneers). No you can't see the sanding line. I used 40g for years and with one exception could never see the lines then. Again, I would expect that 80g is fine...this is what glass is sanded to.
My personal observations and suggestions. If you don't agree, than do what makes you feel comfortable.
BigJim