Sucks, but at least you weren't that far into the process. I've had 2 or 3 ipe boards break on me during test runs before glue up. Remember that thick ipe hates to bend; it will break; you can't force it. And it doesn't like tension as in when you crank down on the clamps for the reflex and deflex post.
If you do another ipe, pre-tiler the ipe and make sure it's bending decently before you put in on the form. If it's bending enough on the floor and is properly tapered, it should bend fine on the form. Another step that I do is to round off the belly side edges and sand them smooth before the form. It can handle a lot in compression, but is finicky when forced to bend in tension.
So you want to make a tri lam with lemon as core and ipe as belly?
I have zero experience with lemon wood.