I use acetone on all surfaces wood and glass ...always . Use a clean cotton cloth and look what comes off the glass and wood . Acetone does not bring out the oils it washes them off . Bringing up the oil was what OL said on one of these sites once and everybody repeated it . You need to clean everything and keep things clean as you glue every part should be laid out on clean white paper and washed before gluing .
I think you are having another problem with the delam other than acetone.