I was a die-hard glove shooter for the last 12 years or more. I'd tried different tabs, because of release problems, but I had the same excuses--didn't feel right, couldn't feel the string, not enough control, etc. etc. etc.
A friend gave me a Cavilier Elite (he's a dang good shot and I was asking him for advice). I said I'd try it. It hung in my shop for a while (it was hunting season and I wasn't going to start changing horses mid-stream), but I finally decided to give it a try.
First impressions--release was very much improved, but all the other things I hated about a tab were there. I almost quit, but my friend had told me "shooting with a tab is a commitment". Since he can shoot circles around most folks, I stuck with it.
After a few weeks I'm comfortable with it. I still get a flyer once in a while, but that's happening less and less. I don't feel my consistency is quite up to what I was getting with a glove, but considering I'm still getting used to it after many years with a glove, I'm not going to give it up just yet.
One thing I've noticed is I still get a very quiet shot with this tab (before they were noisy). My release is way better than I got with a glove, and I won't have to deal with a soaking wet with sweat glove shooting tournaments this summer (or when deer season opens--still dang hot in MS).
I know there's no one perfect tool for everyone in this sport, but I'm becoming a convert to a tab--the Cavalier Elite anyway. As I understand it, this is the tab that a big majority of the serious IBO archers use as well.
One other thing--I ditched the finger spacer even though I shoot split--it's in the way. I also removed the finger sling adjuster and just tied a knot (the same as the friend who introduced me to it). Seems to work better.
Chad