I've posted this before but anyway, the key to making carbons bulletproof is to prep the shafts correctly and to use the strongest slow cure epoxy you can find.
When carbons are made they are wrapped on a mandrel, so a release agent is used on the mandrel so they can be pulled off. You have to clean and really abrade the inside of the shaft. I use a small piece of rolled up sandpaper and abrade the inside of the shaft until carbon dust starts appearing, then clean w alcohol or thinner.
I then glue them with Smooth On epoxy and let dry at least a day. Prepped this way they are so much more durable, I usually don't even foot them. Sure those other glues will work if you shoot nothing but targets, but sooner or later you're going to miss and hit something hard.
I would venture to say that the guys that complain about carbons mushrooming on the front end are the same ones who use hot melt or superglue or don't take the time to prep the shaft properly. A friend and I spent years developing indestructable arrows for stumping and this is what we found. If you want to make them even more bulletproof, foot the tip and nock end with a small section of alum prepped and glued the same way. We can shoot those hard petrified stumps without damage. Let me close by saying that a carbons durability is only as strong as the glue bond at the tip.