The person with the longer draw will be shooting the same arrow faster, and all else equal, it will penetrate further because it has more KE (and momentum). The reason is because the fellow with the longer draw is storing more energy at full draw than you are. This is assuming that the two bows are very similar in design. I know you said physics wasn’t your strong suit, but think about like this. Lets say you had two 60 lbs weights, one sitting about 4” of the ground, the other sitting about 4 feet off the ground. If you had to pick one to stick your foot under and let it fall on you, what one would it be? Hopefully you would say the one at 4”. Why, because at 4” it doesn’t have near as much potential or stored energy as the one at 4 feet. Same thing goes for bows. If you have a 60 lb bow, and pull it to 25.5”, the amount of stored energy is determined by basically those two factors (and of course limb design). I did a rough calculation, and the guy with the longer draw is storing around 10-12% more energy than you. For you to have the same amount of stored energy, you would need to shoot a bow around 66 –68 lbs at your draw length. Although I may catch some guff for mentioning this, that is why cross bows have such high draw weights. Cross bows have very short “draw lengths”. To up the amount of stored energy, they need to increase the draw weight.