Valley
I think like you! I hunt to take the best buck my area has to offer. In central PA, norther NJ and southern NY that is at least 16 inches inside spread, 8 points and 3.5 years old or better. I NEED the challenge and I would rather pass on a skipper than kill it. Some years I pass on a dozen or so does and skippers before I get my crack at a "good buck". Some years I don't get my crack, but every year is a great season because I am in the hunt!
I have tried instinctive shooting several times. Every time I could get my group down to about 6 inches out to 10 to 15 yards but beyond that the group got too big to call it "ready for prime time". The first shot would rarely center the group. Each time after trying for a couple of months I went back to my single sight pin set for 22 yards. Almost immediately my group at 15 yards is 3 inches, at 20 yards is 4 inches and I can hold a 6 inch six-arrow group at 25 yards. With a single sight pin at 22 yards I have a dead-on hold on the "spot" from 20 to 25 yards and I hold the top of the sight pin on my "spot" for 15 yards. And this is with a 64# recurve, cedar arrows, feather fletch and broad-heads. I can hit, first shot or last shot, where I aim.
So there are solutions out there instead of limiting yourself to 10 yards, to does and yearlings, or bows that look like a space-station. I view my way of traditional archery as equally valid that of someone who shoots bare bow but uses carbon fiber arrows.
So I urge you to think outside the box, some. Instinctive shooting is a talent that some of us don't have. We have to find another way.
Good Luck
JMC