I've been through “This is the last bow I’ll ever want” too many times, so I don't get my name on a bow anymore. It's not really that difficult to lightly sand off a name, even if it's under the clear coat. If you can find out what finish the bowyer used, apply a light coat of that over the place you sanded. If you can't find out, find a quality woodworking store, show them the bow, and see what they recommend. I did that to take someone else's name off a bow I bought, and it worked fine; can't tell where the name was removed. Easier than removing a tattoo, for sure!