Gordon,
I understand just what you are saying about the deflex overtaking the reflex but it is still a good looking bow. I just finished my first R/D bow, too, and had the same thing happen to me. It is a boo backed hickory/hickory for a friend and my goal was to keep a strong reflex to it. But after tillering it looks just like yours. My friend is still very happy with it, though, and it should serve him well. Next time I will not induce any deflex at glue up and allow the tillering process to create it, unless the core is osage or ipe.
I imagine after you shoot it in you won't be too disappointed with it. Thanks for sharing.