I have been on baited bear hunts and two guided (not baited of course) turkey hunts far from home. I enjoyed these hunts very much. However, I already had many years of hunting under my belt and degrees in both Forestry and Wildlife Science. My woodsmanship was already well developed. To be frank, I did not consider myself the hunter in any of these hunts, I was simply the shooter. Sure, I had to be quiet, make shoot/don't shoot decisions, and of course be accurate with my gear. But, let's face it, the hard work was done by the guides.
I have never baited for deer. My grown son and I have discussed this a lot. His best friend hunts only over bait and sees deer (lots) every time he goes out. He can see his baited blind from his house. This friend is a wonderful fellow and what he does is legal and good for him. However, my son and I came to an understanding long ago, that we would not hunt deer over bait. That doing so is not hunting the way I learned and the way I've taught him. We don't dog or put down those who do, these are personal decisions.
Having written all that, I didn't engage my son in scouting, stand placement, and other key elements of the hunt for 3-4 years after he started hunting. I was simply his guide. We started that in his late teens. I always worried whether or not I taught him enough to be confident and have fun without me in the picture. These parents who start their kids over bait can do some teaching too. They can teach tree species, other natural food sources, deer and other wildlife sign, and put their bait sites and blinds in locations that would have deer coming by even without the bait. Dad could teach the youngster why the spot is attractive to deer, even without the bait (edge cover, near bedding areas, funnels, topography, to and from natural food, how food choices change through the season, etc.). So, as long as dear old Dad teaches the youngster that baiting requires stealth, marksmanship, and patience, but there are many other parts of the hunt and becoming a hunter that must be mastered.
This past fall (two months ago) my grown son bow-killed 3 turkeys, 2 does, and a 13-point buck. I had nothing to do with his scouting and blind placement and I was not present while he hunted. He's even starting to give me advice. I listen closely, am grateful, and marvel.