First off... I saw no bickering... Second off... I think you are jumping the gun... Third, making light and joking doesn't help matters when two people are serious about something... How about offering an opinion to help settle things?? Aren't you supposed to wait till things get nasty??? I see none of that here... Just a simple miscommunication...
Yah gotta let people work things out Bro... As we did... I have seen things shut down way too early before where people were having a disagreement and was not at all out of hand... Actually I found a couple quite interesting until it was shut down... There is a difference between a heated argument and a discussion over a disagreement... And both can be a part of what a forum is all about... Sometimes you can learn a lot if two people are have a debate over a subject... I say let them go until things do get nasty, and if so tell them to take it else where...
If I can make a suggestion... If any two or more people have a disagreement or to the point that Roy has to get involved... I suggest that you go to private messaging, emails or phone calls and settle your differences of opinion, respectfully and as a gentleman... And learn to agree to disagree if you have to...