I almost always build backed bows. I use predominantly Osage, Hickory, Elm, Mulberry, and White Oak for the belly. I seem to normally make tri-lams... But I sometimes keep it to just two lams...
I don't mind some sting follow... Although I prefer 1.5 or less. I do heat treat with a torch and a heat gun and sometimes I have very little set, but I always have some. Even with Osage and Mulberry.
When I am in glue up I use a backset form that starts the tips out about 2 inches ahead of the handle. When I am building a "Hill Style" bow, tri-lam or quad lam, no matter the material, the bow is usually dead straight when I am done.
I am in no way an expert so I am sure my tillering could be improved. So time will tell if the set goes away or dimineshes. But so far, the set isn't too bad and I don't hate it.
The one on the right is boo backed hickory, at 64lbs. The far left is black palm. The rest are Osage bellied, backed bows of various designs.